may you find people who happily listen while you gush about your obscure interests. may you find people you feel comfortable and safe enough around to be your authentic self
my ex boyfriend and i had frequent arguments because i didn’t have any big plans for my life. i didn’t have any goals or huge aspirations to always be working for. i didn’t want to leave my mark on the world in some profound way like he did.
he couldn’t fathom that my only goal in life was to just exist and be happy doing so, because i’ve spent (and continue to spend) such a huge portion of my life being unhappy and struggling that my monumental goal was to simply not feel that way anymore.
Update as of 12/2018: While I try to keep my posts/reblogs as Safe for Work as possible, some of the blogs I follow *were* NSFW. I'm just waiting to see if they actually get removed from my bar without me doing anything, lol. You've been warned.